An abundance of information on EFT can be found through searching on the net, or else feel free to contact me with any questions or for information. A lot of times, however, people who are following, or think they are following, principles of the Law Of Attraction get very confused about the approach when applying EFT. They think "Im not supposed to validate the negatives, I'm only supposed to affirm the positive". However, this is not really how the Law of Attraction really works (on what you affirm in the conscious mind) and many many people get frustrated thinking "I'm doing everything right, tryng to think the right things and still I am not in the place I want to be". Why? There are other Spiritual Laws involved and The Law of Attraction is simply a mirror element to show us how we are dealing with the other Spiritual Laws.

The number 1 misconception is that Law of Attraction works on what you are thinking in your conscious mind and can be manipulated solely with the conscious mind. Yes, using the conscious mind to alter thinking patters is very helpful and useful, if tended to with compassion, patience and understanding for the whole being and whole consciousness. That includes the hidden parts of yourself which hold a lot of pain, heartache, negative belief systesm, trauma and unresolved issues around not feeling loved or worthy in the world, be it of partnerships, health, money or other issues. All of these aspects are part of you and you are vibrating them. It is these parts of you that the Law of Attraction/ Universe / God seeks to make know to you. How else would you see them if the universe was not kind enough to show them to you in an outwardly manifested way which you will pay attention? Thus you attract to you what you are vibrating, mostly from the hidden parts of yourself, that need to be brought to light to be healed. And what is the greatest healer? LOVE

Part of what the universe wants you to be able to do, is to face these parts of you with love, and it will keep presenting you over and over with more of the same manifestations until love and compassion break through enough to disolve them. This is not acheived through shoving them under your consciousness to focus on only positive affirmations. In this manner,  you tell yourself those parts of you are unacceptable and need to be hidden. It turns the purpose of the law of attraction into something it is not about, and a bit of a game. Though, I guess in ways life can be considered that way.

Again, one important thing about the Law of Attraction is that it works on what you are vibrating, even unconsciously, even if you try to suppress such mental or other states. Plus, because there is a Law of Polarity (two states exist on the same pole, ie. peace/violence), what you wish to create you can attract the opposite if your intention is subtly focused on a state you wish to move away from. Often people who have lives focused too much on healing end up having health or other healing issues to overcome. Those people who focus too much with peace end up confronting issues of the opposite of peace as the opposite pole of there focus. Those people who focus too much on money, struggle with issues of not feeling they have enough and wanting to create more. Because the pursuance of the positive pole is instigated by the desire to move away from the negative one. Otherwise you would be neutral. And, this explains why different people have different avenues which have different focus for them.

Laws of Neutrality/No-Judgement thus come into play as well. We are, after all, here as spiritual being to learn to let go of duality and embrace all as oneness. If you are familiar with A Course in Miracles, the last Judgement is supposed to be the last time we will judge, good or bad, right or wrong etc etc. If you are judging being rich as good and poor as bad or are giving them too much importance, you are still moving away from what the Law of Attraction is really about and more into Ego.

There are many universal laws, and how Law of Attraction is being used in certain ways can either play for them or against them. Knowing all the laws and how they work together might bring more peace of mind and success however.  Even "A Course in Miracles" recommends not to try to create miracles if not from a place of neutrality (no investment in outcomes) without fear, for you will likely create something that you don't want. The first task is to see yourself and all of you very clearly and all of your illusions realizing they are nothing to judge and just illusions (both good and bad, don't make distinctions), then you can start realizing you are in the dream lucidly and can manipulate it. EFT is a great Law of Attraction tool that does this. You acknowledge the parts of yourself you would like to change and apply "Even though... I deeply and profoundly love and accept myself". Then you can turn it around and use EFT to tap in the positive.

And remember, the highest law is always the Law of Love. This law is our real foundation. Whatever you push away in yourself from loving it, be it a state, personality trait, or even another person, you will draw it back to you in various forms, symbols, ways or though other relationships. Why? To teach you to love and acceptance. And love here isn't some romantic ideal and it doesn't mean you become passive. It just means that you become accepting and loving towards the you inside, all parts of you, the hurts and foibles with the joys, as well as becoming more neutral or loving toward those of others. A rich man may attract a wealth of money, but if he excessively needs more because he never feels rich enough... is this materially rich man really rich or is he poor? So what is he not loving in himself?

I believe that this is probably how karma works and even reincarnation.... that it is about love and not punishment. We are hear to accept and learn to love and transcend all... It is all of us just dreaming this world anyways. So, its better not to hate or run away from your dreams. They are all interesting and unique. And, you don't have to stress so hard over changing them, let them change from the inside out.  Let the inside tell you what needs you and your love and acceptance right now. Like a little child seeking for you just to be there and understand and not always try to fix everything; there is a little child in you needing you this way too.

Mandy